Why dwell on the past? If you know something isn't going to happen at all, literally, not at all... why do we keep trying? why don't we just give up? why can't we just get over it? Well, it's just who we are, human. We constantly live in the past and refuse to move forward and let things go. It's one of the hardest things in life. To accept something for as it is. To let things go and move on; trying so hard not to hold onto the past. But we have to. As cliché as this sound, you really have no choice unless you want to be stuck in the past forever. It's one thing to look back and reminicse but, it's another thing to actually live in the past and try to make something happen, that won't actually happen. Moving forward is all we can do honestly. No matter how much things hurt, no matter how much you don't want to, no matter how wrong things feel. Letting go of something that you know won't end up right in the long run, letting go of something that is holding you back...seems so painful and difficult , but it is possible. The future, it's there. Waiting for you. Waiting for you to move forward. Waiting for you to push through and stay strong. Waiting for you to break down the barriers that are stopping you from being you, stopping you from living life, stopping you for living the NOW. Problems may come and go, and the multitude of pain it causes you will vary, but at the end of the day...in reality...you can make it. Refuse all you want, don't let go, stay stuck in the past, but let me tell you.. you'll be unhappy. You'll miss out on other opportunities. You'll maybe even change. Don't let one thing bring you down. Fight the struggles. Fight the pain. Fight the voice in your head that isn't letting you move forward. Live the now, live for the future. There's no turning back. No rewinding time. Things happen for a reason, and all we can do is accept it.
“Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.”
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